We are simply making suggestions to make the game better. If what the devs want is one group of hardcore players killing everyones bases so they all quit then keep the system how it is. If you want to build a community and increase the population of the game the siege mechanics need some tweaking.
Now in reply to your list....
1.) I cant even hold the iron/steel I have stored much less everything else in my base so that dont work. You would also be completely vulnerable while you have to build from scratch again.
(this also doesnt take into account that most of the work lost is on the structures themselves brick walls/ decorations/ fountains/ anvils/ forges /bloomeries etc)
2.) Ok.... I guess but while this militia is defending your base who is defending theirs?
3.) Moving to a pve server is a terrible suggestion and you know it.... if the answer to unbalanced mechanics is to quit and move to another server something is BROKEN.
4.) again see #3 if your answer to unbalanced mechanics is to only rebuild crappy walls and wait for it to all get broken down again something is BROKEN nobody will keep playing....
5.) This works but now both teams have no base to go back to nowhere to store loot and everybody will have to rebuild all over again this get stale because it takes sooooo long to build up a decent base with the necessary crafting/ smelting/ etc stations.
6.) This wont work (you can only build 1 dominion) even if you built in clan lands anyone will just follow you setup a cheap ram and destroy the palisade walls and your stone and take everything.
Its a brand new system the developers have asked us for input and suggestions. Its the 1st itteration of the siege mechanic so obviously we will have some changes its up to us to help the devs tweak it in the right direction. My point is that currently the amount of effort/materials required to completely delete someones base compared to the time it takes to build it is extremely unbalanced.
Everytime we do this though you come in here and tell us all to stop complaining or that we are lazy or that we should just switch to "pve" servers if we dont like it. As we have already seen the developers have listened to many of our suggestions and the game is better for it. We only hope to continue this trend.
Nobody said anything about you getting paid or this being your job....? I wouldnt do what your doing and you do a great job for the most part. Just remember as a moderator you are no longer just another player on the forums. You have been given more responsibility, The way you behave, and the way you treat the players on this forum reflects upon the developers/game. You need to go out of your way to be respectful and courteous.